http://doublenickelfarm.blogspot.com/2011/08/i-wonder_27.html
You simply MUST hop over and read this post by Jennifer. It came from 2009, I believe, but she reposted it. It's simple, to the point, and highly thought-provoking. I stand and applaud her. She put very eloquently what I think and feel every single day. Tell her I sent you... Thanks!